Balika Vadhu 3rd october 2013 written update Anandi is talking with the lord. She says, neither Shiv nor Ira is wrong for their behaviour. No one would be able to see their sister or daughter in this condition. She says, When I was asked to choose one family, then it’s obvious I would select this family because now this house is mine.. I am bahu and daughter of this house. Shiv is everything to me.. I am nothing without him.. he’s my husband. I accepted to end my relationship with my other family.. but I need to know why Shiv is still upset with me. She prays to bring happiness…